Ask the Editor: Conflicting dates?
My fiancÃ© and I are planning our wedding, and just found out that one of our friends picked a wedding date three weeks from ours.Â We share a lot of mutual friends.Â We were engaged first and have been planning... Read More
Deciding on a Guest List
The bride and groom should sit down and form a list, organized by priority. The first priority guests, or non-negotiable invitations, are people such as immediate family and very close friends.Â Second-priority guests are extended family, and friends. Third-priority would... Read More
Wedding Size and Family
Disagreements over the size of the wedding? Ultimately, the choice lies with the bride and groom, within the constraints of the budget. Now, that isn’t to say that the couple ought to veto whomever they want from the wedding when... Read More
Engagement Parties: Who hosts and who attends?
Who is invited: First and foremost, much like bridal showers or bachelor parties, donâ€™t invite anyone you donâ€™t intend on inviting to the wedding (the exception being if you are having a small destination wedding, with a reception at home,... Read More
Gay Wedding Guest List
As more states continue to legalize gay marriage, an issue for many gay couples is whether or not to invite friends and family who donâ€™t approve of their â€œlifestyle.â€Â The etiquette surrounding gay marriage is new, but some things are... Read More
Design Your Wedding Around Who You Are
Knowing who you are as a couple is critical to planning a wedding that is reflective of who you are. The best weddings are not the ones that come with the heftiest price tags or most lavish receptions. A wedding... Read More
Friends Left Out of Your Wedding Party?
Unfortunately, it is hard to avoid hurt feelings at any wedding.Â Inevitably, any event with that much emotion and protocol surrounding it is going to offend someone at some point.Â Which is not to say that you should shrug that... Read More
Co-Ed Party Ideas
Afternoon tea not your friendâ€™s style?Â For some women, a co-ed couple shower makes more sense than a traditional bridal shower.Â Of course, if you have a co-ed shower the event has to be as non-traditional as the guest list.Â ... Read More
Bachelorette Party Basics
Who to invite: Generally, the bridesmaids and close female friends of the bride.Â If including junior bridesmaids, the activities should be age appropriate.Â Do not invite anyone to the bachelorette party that is not invited to the wedding. Where to... Read More
Ask the Editor: Best Woman? Male Bridesmaid?
One of my fiancÃ©â€™s best friends is one of his female cousins.Â Iâ€™m fine with her being in the bridal party, but I know it would be more meaningful if she stood on the groomâ€™s side.Â Iâ€™ve heard itâ€™s been... Read More
Cancelled Engagement: Graceful Answers
So, the wedding is cancelled and the engagement is off.Â All the bills have been split and details settled.Â And now, you have to face curious acquaintances chomping at the bit to get the juicy details.Â Of course, it is... Read More
Cancelled Engagement: First Steps
Immediately tell your family and everyone involved in the wedding that the engagement is off.Â Likely, most costs your family and wedding party members have associated with the wedding can be recouped, to some degree, given enough notice.Â Although this... Read More
Welcome Gifts for Guests
While gift baskets for your out-of-towners are not absolutely necessary, they are excellent gestures that let them know how grateful you are that they came. Although, I know, it sounds like one more detail that you don’t have time for;... Read More
Groom’s Etiquette Expert on Groom Showers
Photography by Ashley Brokop Question: The bride usually has several showers that include an all-female guest list, so why isn’t there an all-guy bridal, er, “groomal” shower? Groom’s Etiquette Expert, Chris Easter’s Answer: Believe it or not, groom showers (also... Read More
When Caroline called her best friend, Denise to invite her to be maid of honor at her wedding, she had no idea Denise would have a request of her own. Her boyfriend had just “popped the question” that day and... Read More
Friends and Family – Are They as Much Help as You Think?
Photography by Anna Kuperberg Photography by Anna Kuperberg – see more at www.kuperberg.com Many couples are struggling with the fact that they want to cut down on costs, but still have the wedding of their dreams. How do you find... Read More