What is a Fake Cake?
Some brides on a smaller budget opt to have a fake display cake to save money.Â These Styrofoam-based decorations are put out on display (either alongside real cake layers or by themselves), while the cake served to guest is pre-cut... Read More
What is a Cake-Cutting Fee?
Many reception venues charge cake cutting fees, often at an average of about $2 per slice.Â Although that doesnâ€™t sound like much, for larger weddings this can add hundreds of dollars to an already stretched budget.Â Commonly, cake cutting fees... Read More
How to Ask if Your Parents can Contribute to Your Wedding
First, how this conversation goes varies greatly on your relationship with your parents.Â If, for example, you have always been close with them, and everyone is honest and direct, you really donâ€™t need this question answered for you.Â Approach them... Read More
Ask the Editor: Family Dance Songs
For the mother/son and father/daughter dances, are the songs supposed to be from the parentâ€™s perspective, or the childâ€™s?Â What should the songs be about?â€”Hayden, Biloxi, MS There are no rules for father/daughter and mother/son songsâ€¦well, within reason (for example,... Read More
Dance Order at the Reception
When you start the dancing depends upon what type of reception you are having.Â If you are having a more formal affair with a sit-down dinner, you will want to wait until after dinner has concluded.Â Otherwise, start the dancing... Read More
Why Should You Hire a Wedding Planner?
Many couples immediately dismiss the idea of hiring a wedding planner because it sounds expensive.Â At the onset, wedding planning sounds simple.Â In reality, however, it can be very time-consuming.Â Ultimately, you have to decide how much your time is... Read More
Questions to Ask When You Tour a Venue
Whenever couples visit their ceremony and reception venues, chances are they get caught up in the scenery and imagining all their details coming to life.Â So, before you sign off on the grand ballroom with the dramatic ocean view, make... Read More
Check the Venueâ€™s Fine Print!
You enter the gardens and you know itâ€¦this is the place!Â Before you sign on the dotted line, make sure you read the fine print of any venue contract.Â Many venues, particularly those with catering services, will either require you... Read More
Guest Etiquette Basics
When you receive your invite, check your calendar, and if necessary, inquire with your work about time off, check into travel arrangements, etc. You should RSVP with immediacy. Do not let it sit in a pile with your other mail.... Read More
Checklist & Budget Tools
Looking for something that will make wedding planning easier? Try the new mywedding checklist tool, which will allow you to organize all of your tasks in one central location.Â For your convenience, our checklist is pre-populated with the most common... Read More
Budgeting and Prioritizing
Chances are, no matter what your wedding budget is, you are going to have to make choices.Â Having a dream wedding isnâ€™t about having everything you want; it is about valuing what is most important to you, and planning your... Read More
Destination Weddings & At-Home Receptions
When having a destination wedding, it is not always possible for you to invite everyone you want, or likewise, for your guests to attend. Particularly if your destination wedding is a great distance away, it makes sense for you to... Read More
Sweet Table Themes
A relatively old-fashioned concept, the sweet table has re-emerged as a wedding must-have in recent years.Â Some couples choose to have a large sweet table in lieu of a cake, while others have one in addition to the traditional wedding... Read More
Pre-cut Sheet Cakes
Pre-cut sheet cakes are starting to emerge as an affordable and time-saving alternative to traditional wedding cakes.Â Oddly, these sheet cakes are most often used at both ends of the wedding budget spectrum.Â For couples having elaborate weddings, with the... Read More
There are many personal life situations that traditional wedding planning etiquette does not address. One example of this is how to incorporate children from a previous relationship into the wedding ceremony. The bride, the groom or both may have children... Read More
The Secret Sauce of Great Wedding Photos
Photography by Parris Whittingham – see more at www.pswhittingham.com So good you can taste em’ Brides and grooms often ask me, “How can you ensure my wedding photographs will be as good as the photos on your site?” The simple... Read More