Sofiah & Brendan

Our Story

And now I will become a storyteller...

How we met!

At Rob and Daisy's wedding
How we met!

Brendan and I met for the first time in person at Rob and Daisy's wedding at Mount Shasta June 21st 2006.

What a blissful magical wedding that was! I had originally met both Rob and Daisy individually in India back in 2001. I was there to witness them meeting for the first time and then 5 years later I met my beloved at their wedding.

I always say "I could never plan my life as beautifully as it seems to unfold."

Their wedding was a meeting of the tribe....many people from different times of my life were gathered there to witness and celebrate their union.

Proposal

Why wait for the man to propose?
Proposal

That's right, I took initiative in showing him I was serious about staying here with him in Costa Rica and making a life together!

When i was in Oregon last year with my family I decided I was going to go for it.
With the support of my mum and little sister Miriam, we went down town Portland to look for rings.

I found some amazing designer rings; yellow gold with niobium for Brendan and rose gold with niobium for me.

A couple of days after I returned home I prepared our studio upstairs with a pathway of tea lights, music and a little thrown for Brendan to sit on at the end of the pathway. I then came down and blindfolded him to take him upstairs. After sitting him down... I told him to uncover his eyes as I began to dance towards him from the other end of the lit up pathway...offering him my dance of devotion all the way across the studio.
When I reached him I pulled out the rings from the altar and placed it on his finger...and then gave him mine to put on my ring.

Brendan was very moved to say the least!