Question:
Dear Nicole,
I am having trouble choosing my maid of honor. I have three best friends: one who has been my best friend since the age of four, but who lives far away and don't see very often; another whom I've known since childhood as well, but lives close by and we see each other all the time; and another who is my brother's girlfriend whom I've only known for two years, but to whom I've become very close. How can I choose a maid-of-honor without making the others feel left out?
Stefanie from New Jersey
Response:
Dear Stefanie,
You are in luck, my friend! These days, it's not uncommon to have more than one maid-of-honor. How about choosing all three to be your honorees? Is one of them married? If so, then you'll have one Matron and two Maids. You get the picture. Now if this idea doesn't float your boat, here are more suggestions: Decide to go without a maid-of-honor all together. This is completely acceptable; just make sure your bridesmaids are available to give you a hand when needed. Alternatively, you could choose a family member to take this role instead of a friend. Most people understand the decision to include a family member over a friend. The moral of this story is that you can do whatever you want! Ultimately, it's your wedding. There are no official wedding rules to follow. You're only job is to create the wedding of your dreams. Good Luck!
For Better or Worse,
Nicole
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