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Many of today's couples are likely to come from different cultures, represent different races, and may even speak different native languages. No matter what path two people take to find each other, a good match is a good match. And as the saying goes, “Love knows no boundaries.” Cultural differences can make for a unique, meaningful ceremony. A wedding can include words or practices from any cultural tradition and can be blended in a way that works for both parties.

One of the more unusual ceremonies I performed involved co-officiating with a Rabbi. We had two separate ceremonies, respectively; which we wove together by alternating back and forth, paragraph by paragraph. We stopped only for ritual acts like the wine ceremony and the ring and vow exchange.

In another wedding, I spoke the words of the ceremony part by part and a translator, standing off to the side, repeated them in another language. This was helpful for guests who did not speak English. Another idea is to select one officiant who can do readings in multiple languages. I've done a few weddings where the couple said their vows in two languages.

A wedding joins not only two people, but two families and two communities. And in many cases—two cultures. It's great when everyone feels included at the wedding!