JLo’s 6.1 carat pink diamond engagement ring from Ben Affleck was worth $1.2 million dollars. It made headlines, but didn’t make her his wife. Soon thereafter, she weds Marc Anthony whom doesn’t even give her a ring. Apparently, “Love Don’t Cost a Thing.” A year later he does get her a 14.5 carat, brilliant cut diamond ring on a platinum band, valued at more than 5 million dollars. So, I guess love does cost a little…
The first rule of engagement ring shopping is: Set a budget. Yes, spending “two-month’s salary” is the common rule of thumb. But, accept your limitations. And let quality and value be the basis for your decision making, not the dollar amount.
Rule number two, consider the four C’s: clarity, color, carat, and cut. The best value in clarity is a diamond with no inclusions (which are other minerals stuck inside the stone) visible to the naked eye. And a colorless or near colorless diamond also adds value to your ring, unless of course you’re going for another gemstone (like a sapphire) or a colored diamond. The third “C” is for carat weight. Although a larger stone is nice, bigger doesn’t necessarily make it better. An inclusion-free, colorless, large carat stone loses its brilliance and sparkle depending on the cut. There are several cuts to choose from: princess, emerald, round, and pear to name a few. Every woman will have their preference.
Once you’ve chosen a rock, you’ll have to do a bit of research. Study the current jewelry style she wears; classic, fancy, antique, modern? Does she prefer white or yellow gold or does she prefer platinum? She may need a cathedral or contour setting (which means the diamond is set into the band) if she’s more active with her hands. A raised setting, works well for women that don’t have to worry about snagging their clothing, etc. Ask her friends if she’s mentioned a preference and make them promise not to spill the beans! Or, just simply ask her. Today, many couples are looking for rings together, which is an enjoyable and error proof route for any guy. In any case, stay within your budget, use the four C’s, consider her personal style, and your ring will be perfect!
Honestly, with the candlelight low, a bottle of bubbly, gazing into each other’s eyes, as you get down on one knee—she’ll probably say “Yes” before you bring out that little box. And whether it’s a 1 carat or a 14.5-carat ring, I guarantee, she’ll wear it like it’s worth a million bucks.
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