Weddings make some people nervous. Yes, making the "til death do us part" commitment in front of a group of 200 is enough to activate butterflies in almost anyone. Add that to what is likely to be a hectic several days of preparation and last minutes worries and you've got the makings of a cocktail that might knock your socks off.
If this feels like a possible preview of your wedding day, let me suggest a caveat. Tossing back a manhattan before the ceremony might not be the best way to calm your nerves. I've done more than a few weddings where the wedding party passed a flask around while waiting for the guests to arrive. In one case, the pre–ceremony partying led to the bride and groom giggling throughout the ceremony. Not the worst thing that could happen, but... A wedding is one of the most important life transitions you will ever make. It's okay to be nervous.
It's also okay to talk with your officiant about ways to help you remain calm.
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