Last week, we were reminded of how much it really does matter to show your MIL that you care for her. Up next is…
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Mistakes Every Daughter-in-Law Make: Mistake # 3
Posted by of TheDILRules.comMay 14, 2008
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Welcome, Bienvenido, Villkommen, Mile Widziany
Photography by Milton Gil Photographers - see more at www.miltongil.comAs I pointed out previously, a wedding is a 'rite of passage.' Your ceremony and celebration make a statement to your community of friends and family that you now have a different identity. You invite friends and family to witness and celebrate this transition with you. Whether your guests include neighbors, co-workers, people from your past, distant relatives or those closest to your heart, you think of these people as your community. You've identified them as the most important people to be present for one of the most important passages in your life.
Go to full postPosted by of Chicken Soup CounselingMay 9, 2008
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Mistakes Every Daughter-in-Law Makes: Mistake # 2
Last week we began the journey into the realm of Mother-in-laws and how to build a real relationship with them. Our first mistake was forgetting to call them regularly and we covered how to mend this and improve our calling habits. Remember that these tips, though seemingly small and simple, will help to improve your standing with your MIL as well as begin a friendship between the two of you.
Go to full postPosted by of TheDILRules.comMay 7, 2008
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Mistakes Every Daughter-in-Law Makes: Mistake # 1
Photography by April Greer - see more at www.aprilgreer.comThere are few brides that enter a marriage without some concerns about their new husband’s mother. The dreaded mother-in-law stigma is all too common but there are a few simple things you can avoid that will save you from repeat mother/daughter zingers that we all experience from time to time (some of us more than others!). Although these exercises started off as a tongue-in-cheek coping mechanism, once I began putting a few of these strategies into practice, I noticed that my mother-in-law’s attitude started to shift (as did my own) and a true friendship began to form. Now remember this will not happen over night. Changing the cycle takes time and effort. The bottom line is while you’re correcting these mistakes, really and truly try to learn to appreciate your mother-in-law and she will learn to appreciate you.
Go to full postPosted by of TheDILRules.comApril 30, 2008
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The Value of Value!
Photography by Parris Whittingham - see more at www.pswhittingham.comLet’s face it. Girls love to shop. Being able get the lowest price in the shopping department is a skill many women pride themselves in. However, when it comes to your wedding you may want to step back and consider a slightly different approach. While everyone would rather get something for nothing, when considering vendors for your event you also want to keep in mind that you are investing into a very important day of your life; quite possibly the most important day of your life.
Go to full postPosted by of Parris Whittingham PhotographyApril 25, 2008
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Mother-in-Law: Foe...or Friend?
Photography by Milton Gil Photographers - see more at www.miltongil.comThere has to be some magic technique for dealing with mothers-in-law! After all, almost every wife you know has issues with hers…
Go to full postPosted by of TheDILRules.comApril 23, 2008
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Don't Play YMCA!
Photography by Cameron Ingalls - see more at www.cameroningalls.comTake it from someone who attends weddings on a weekly basis, your DJ may try to play “YMCA” and other severely outdated moldy oldies! If you have had enough of songs like “Brick House,” “We Are Family,” and “Love Shack” than I suggest a detailed music consultation with the Disc Jockey you are considering to oversee your event. This will save you a lot of grief when you hit the dance floor.
Go to full postPosted by of Cameron Ingalls PhotographyApril 18, 2008
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Shhh...It's a Secret.
Photography by Milton Gil Photographers - see more at www.miltongil.comI’ve had a number of couples contact me to perform their wedding ceremony who have already, in fact, tied the knot. In recent years, marrying before the originally planned ceremony date is not at all uncommon. Reasons range from insurance purposes to immigration issues or maybe it was simply a spur of the moment decision. Whatever the case, invariably these couples wanted the fact that they were already married to remain a secret.
Go to full postPosted by of Chicken Soup CounselingApril 16, 2008
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10 Generic Wedding Gifts to Avoid at All Costs
One of the most symbolic elements of weddings, right up there with cutting the cake and strolling down the aisle, is the giving of wedding gifts. However, many guests fail in this department.Go to full post
Posted by April 15, 2008
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What Has he Done For You Lately?
Photography by Parris Whittingham - see more at www.pswhittingham.comWhen I get an inquiry for my services from the groom-to-be, I am always impressed. Overall, grooms tend to be less active in the wedding planning process. Let's face it, the wedding industry is largely catered towards brides. However, men can and should contribute more…and we’re not talking about money. There’s plenty of work and fun to go around.
Go to full postPosted by of Parris Whittingham PhotographyApril 11, 2008