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 <subtitle>Everything you need to plan your wedding</subtitle>
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 <updated>2009-11-20T00:00:00Z</updated>
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  <entry>
   <title><![CDATA[Engagement Session with James and Sophia in San Francisco, CA]]></title>
   <author>
   	<name>Gretchen</name>
   </author>
   <link href="http://www.mywedding.com/blogs/mywed/2009/11/engagement-session-with-james-and-sophia-in-san-francisco-ca.html"/>
   <id>http://www.mywedding.com/blogs/mywed/2009/11/engagement-session-with-james-and-sophia-in-san-francisco-ca.html</id>
   <updated>2009-11-20T00:00:19Z</updated>
   <summary type="html"><![CDATA[How did you meet?
We met at church. James has been attending the same church since his freshman year of college and I was a newcomer back in 2007. He noticed me as soon as I began attending, and we were friends for about a year before we started dating.

Did you know when you met, that he was "the ONE?"
No way! I knew that James liked me for awhile before he approached me about dating, and the entire time I was thinking "Okay... I like being friends with him, but can I really imagine myself KISSING this guy!? NO!" Even after we...]]></summary>
   <category term="Featured Weddings" scheme="http://www.mywedding.com/blogs/mywed/categories/featured-weddings/" />
   <category term="Real Weddings" scheme="http://www.mywedding.com/blogs/mywed/categories/real-weddings/" />
    </entry>

  <entry>
   <title><![CDATA[Color Board: Ivory and Maroon]]></title>
   <author>
   	<name>Gretchen</name>
   </author>
   <link href="http://www.mywedding.com/blogs/mywed/2009/11/color-board-ivory-and-maroon.html"/>
   <id>http://www.mywedding.com/blogs/mywed/2009/11/color-board-ivory-and-maroon.html</id>
   <updated>2009-11-19T00:00:18Z</updated>
   <summary type="html"><![CDATA[

Photo Credit:

Suit - Dolce & Gabbana on GQ

Aisle decor - Docuvitae

Amour flags: Element Weddings

Dress: Coast Stores

Cream shoes - Serendipity Event Group

Bird cage veil - Ebay
...]]></summary>
   <category term="Colors" scheme="http://www.mywedding.com/blogs/mywed/categories/colors/" />
   <category term="Inspiration &amp; Planning" scheme="http://www.mywedding.com/blogs/mywed/categories/inspiration--planning/" />
    </entry>

  <entry>
   <title><![CDATA[Idea Board: Wedding Signage]]></title>
   <author>
   	<name>Gretchen</name>
   </author>
   <link href="http://www.mywedding.com/blogs/mywed/2009/11/idea-board-wedding-signage.html"/>
   <id>http://www.mywedding.com/blogs/mywed/2009/11/idea-board-wedding-signage.html</id>
   <updated>2009-11-17T00:00:17Z</updated>
   <summary type="html"><![CDATA[
Photo Credit:

Just married & LOVE on table - Aruna B. Photography


Welcome to our wedding - Amy Carroll Photography


Reserved chair decor - Dolcissima Events


This way to wedding: TC Event Design


Sweet dreams favors - Details Details...]]></summary>
   <category term="Ceremony &amp; Reception" scheme="http://www.mywedding.com/blogs/mywed/categories/ceremony--reception/" />
   <category term="Inspiration &amp; Planning" scheme="http://www.mywedding.com/blogs/mywed/categories/inspiration--planning/" />
    </entry>

  <entry>
   <title><![CDATA[Wedding Planner Expert with Maid of Honor Duties]]></title>
   <author>
   	<name>Guest Blogger</name>
   </author>
   <link href="http://www.mywedding.com/blogs/mywed/2009/11/wedding-planner-expert-with-maid-of-honor-duties.html"/>
   <id>http://www.mywedding.com/blogs/mywed/2009/11/wedding-planner-expert-with-maid-of-honor-duties.html</id>
   <updated>2009-11-16T00:00:16Z</updated>
   <summary type="html"><![CDATA[Question:
What is the difference between a maid of Honor and a matron of honor?  What role do they play in the bridal party?


Wedding Planner Expert, Jessica Adler of JA Special Events and Weddings answer's this:
A maid of honor is an attendant who has not been married, whereas a matron of honor is someone who is either currently married or has been married.

Some brides will choose to select a maid and matron of honor to be part of their wedding party. 

With religious specific weddings, sometimes traditions will dictate that the bridesmaids, including the maid and matron of honor walk down...]]></summary>
   <category term="Etiquette" scheme="http://www.mywedding.com/blogs/mywed/categories/etiquette/" />
    </entry>

  <entry>
   <title><![CDATA[Etiquette Expert with Inviting Co-Workers to the Big Day]]></title>
   <author>
   	<name>Claudia Lutman</name>
   </author>
   <link href="http://www.mywedding.com/blogs/mywed/2009/11/etiquette-expert-with-inviting-co-workers-to-the-big-day.html"/>
   <id>http://www.mywedding.com/blogs/mywed/2009/11/etiquette-expert-with-inviting-co-workers-to-the-big-day.html</id>
   <updated>2009-11-16T00:00:15Z</updated>
   <summary type="html"><![CDATA[Question:What is acceptable with inviting co-workers to a wedding? Is it possible to just invite a few select co-workers? If so, does one need to also invite their spouse's?

Etiquette Expert, Claudia 

Lutman's Answer: 
When inviting co-workers to your wedding, you must do so with discernment.  In the height of excitement about your upcoming wedding, you should be cognizant of the notion you may be sending (i.e. you do not want to give the impression that you’re inviting everyone from the office or department when in fact it maybe only a select few).  To avoid this perception, I would suggest...]]></summary>
   <category term="Etiquette" scheme="http://www.mywedding.com/blogs/mywed/categories/etiquette/" />
    </entry>

  <entry>
   <title><![CDATA[Meeko and Emily's Hilltop Wedding in Tiburon, CA]]></title>
   <author>
   	<name>Gretchen</name>
   </author>
   <link href="http://www.mywedding.com/blogs/mywed/2009/11/meeko-and-emilys-hilltop-wedding-in-tiburon-ca.html"/>
   <id>http://www.mywedding.com/blogs/mywed/2009/11/meeko-and-emilys-hilltop-wedding-in-tiburon-ca.html</id>
   <updated>2009-11-13T00:00:14Z</updated>
   <summary type="html"><![CDATA[How did the two of you meet? Tell us your story:

Meeko and I met working together at a restaurant in college.  He was the older, hunky bartender, and I was the 18 year-old hostess.  We worked together for almost 8 months, shamelessly flirting all along, before I successfully FORCED him to ask me out (yes, that's right, I threatened him).  After a couple of dates--and we're talking classy dates like dinner at In 'N Out - Meeko asked me to be "his lady."  The rest is history.

What was the theme | design inspiration for your wedding?

I am...]]></summary>
   <category term="Featured Weddings" scheme="http://www.mywedding.com/blogs/mywed/categories/featured-weddings/" />
   <category term="Real Weddings" scheme="http://www.mywedding.com/blogs/mywed/categories/real-weddings/" />
    </entry>

  <entry>
   <title><![CDATA[Enter the Clay Hill Farm Green Wedding Giveaway]]></title>
   <author>
   	<name>Gretchen</name>
   </author>
   <link href="http://www.mywedding.com/blogs/mywed/2009/11/enter-the-clay-hill-farm-green-wedding-giveaway.html"/>
   <id>http://www.mywedding.com/blogs/mywed/2009/11/enter-the-clay-hill-farm-green-wedding-giveaway.html</id>
   <updated>2009-11-12T00:00:13Z</updated>
   <summary type="html"><![CDATA[
For complete rules and entry process, please visit:

Green Wedding Giveaway 2010


Goodluck!
...]]></summary>
   <category term="Contests" scheme="http://www.mywedding.com/blogs/mywed/categories/contests/" />
    </entry>

  <entry>
   <title><![CDATA[Wedding Planner Expert with What to Wear to a Wedding]]></title>
   <author>
   	<name>Guest Blogger</name>
   </author>
   <link href="http://www.mywedding.com/blogs/mywed/2009/11/wedding-planner-expert-with-what-to-wear-to-a-wedding.html"/>
   <id>http://www.mywedding.com/blogs/mywed/2009/11/wedding-planner-expert-with-what-to-wear-to-a-wedding.html</id>
   <updated>2009-11-12T00:00:12Z</updated>
   <summary type="html"><![CDATA[Question:
Can you please categorize the different attire formalities and what each one of those mean for guests?

Wedding Planner Expert, Jessica Adler of JA Special Events and Weddings answer's this:
 
Knowing what to wear to a wedding or special event can be pretty confusing nowadays.  Based on the time of year, time of day, and part of the country, as well as the style of the venue, appropriate attire can really vary.  It can really be helpful to look online and learn about the town and location for the wedding in order to really select your outfit.  In general,...]]></summary>
   <category term="Etiquette" scheme="http://www.mywedding.com/blogs/mywed/categories/etiquette/" />
    </entry>

  <entry>
   <title><![CDATA[Designer Gallery: Saja Wedding Gowns]]></title>
   <author>
   	<name>Gretchen</name>
   </author>
   <link href="http://www.mywedding.com/blogs/mywed/2009/11/designer-gallery-saja-wedding-gowns.html"/>
   <id>http://www.mywedding.com/blogs/mywed/2009/11/designer-gallery-saja-wedding-gowns.html</id>
   <updated>2009-11-11T00:00:11Z</updated>
   <summary type="html"><![CDATA[
Saja Wedding Collection...]]></summary>
   <category term="Wedding Gowns" scheme="http://www.mywedding.com/blogs/mywed/categories/wedding-gowns/" />
   <category term="Fashion" scheme="http://www.mywedding.com/blogs/mywed/categories/fashion/" />
    </entry>

  <entry>
   <title><![CDATA[Photographer Expert with the Right Questions to Ask Your Wedding Photographer]]></title>
   <author>
   	<name>Guest Blogger</name>
   </author>
   <link href="http://www.mywedding.com/blogs/mywed/2009/11/photographer-expert-with-the-right-questions-to-ask-your-wedding-photographer.html"/>
   <id>http://www.mywedding.com/blogs/mywed/2009/11/photographer-expert-with-the-right-questions-to-ask-your-wedding-photographer.html</id>
   <updated>2009-11-10T00:00:10Z</updated>
   <summary type="html"><![CDATA[Question:What questions should I be asking when interviewing photographers for my wedding?
Photography Experts, Zach and Michelle Wear of Revert Photo, answers this:
So, you looked far and wide and found a few photographers that fit your style.  First and most importantly, find someone that fits your style and personality.  It's very important to get together and make sure your personalities mesh well, whenever possible.  If you are planning a destination wedding, get on Skype or chat on the phone, but be sure you enjoy the photographer you are hiring.    Here is a list of just...]]></summary>
   <category term="Etiquette" scheme="http://www.mywedding.com/blogs/mywed/categories/etiquette/" />
    </entry>

  <entry>
   <title><![CDATA[Planning Tip of The Week: Wintry Reception Decor]]></title>
   <author>
   	<name>Gretchen</name>
   </author>
   <link href="http://www.mywedding.com/blogs/mywed/2009/11/planning-tip-of-the-week-wintry-reception-decor.html"/>
   <id>http://www.mywedding.com/blogs/mywed/2009/11/planning-tip-of-the-week-wintry-reception-decor.html</id>
   <updated>2009-11-10T00:00:09Z</updated>
   <summary type="html"><![CDATA[Getting married in the next couple cold months ahead?  Bring the frosty and wintry magic to your reception with simple touches like in the photo above.  


Here are a few items that you will definitely need to capture the perfect winter wonderland decor:

Twinkling white lights
Branches (spray painted silver is optional)
Candles
Hanging crystal strands
White flowers
Snow berries
 Glass vases 


 
Vendor Credit:

Event Planner: Allison van Every
Event Design and Flowers: Water Lily Pond and Pod & Seed ...]]></summary>
   <category term="Ceremony &amp; Reception" scheme="http://www.mywedding.com/blogs/mywed/categories/ceremony--reception/" />
   <category term="Inspiration &amp; Planning" scheme="http://www.mywedding.com/blogs/mywed/categories/inspiration--planning/" />
    </entry>

  <entry>
   <title><![CDATA[Party in a Bag - A Kitchen Themed Bridal Shower]]></title>
   <author>
   	<name>Ask Lucy</name>
   </author>
   <link href="http://www.mywedding.com/blogs/mywed/2009/11/party-in-a-bag---a-kitchen-themed-bridal-shower.html"/>
   <id>http://www.mywedding.com/blogs/mywed/2009/11/party-in-a-bag---a-kitchen-themed-bridal-shower.html</id>
   <updated>2009-11-10T00:00:08Z</updated>
   <summary type="html"><![CDATA[Throwing a bridal shower for your epicurean friend? Try a kitchen-themed shower!  If the bride-to-be is addicted to the Food Network and has a pile of Gourmet magazines by the door, this may be just the party for her.  
For the invitations: 
Use a cooking themed invitation or find recipe cards that you can use as invitations.  See below for gift theme suggestions to include in the invitations.

For the gifts:  You can suggest that guests follow a number of themes: favorite kitchen gadgets, cookbooks, or even gourmet ingredients!  Each one of these themes is affordable and...]]></summary>
   <category term="Ask Lucy" scheme="http://www.mywedding.com/blogs/mywed/categories/ask-lucy/" />
    </entry>

  <entry>
   <title><![CDATA[Jordan and Julia's Special Day in Los Angeles, CA]]></title>
   <author>
   	<name>Gretchen</name>
   </author>
   <link href="http://www.mywedding.com/blogs/mywed/2009/11/jordan-and-julias-special-day-in-los-angeles-ca.html"/>
   <id>http://www.mywedding.com/blogs/mywed/2009/11/jordan-and-julias-special-day-in-los-angeles-ca.html</id>
   <updated>2009-11-09T00:00:07Z</updated>
   <summary type="html"><![CDATA[What was the theme | design inspiration for your wedding?

We wanted it to look like us - we didn't want it to look manufactured or standard in any way. We wanted it to be eclectic, but simple and classy at the same time. Ultimately our own aesthetic sense and style were the inspirations, as well as the landscape around us. 
Tell us about the bridal attire:
The bridesmaids wore simple navy chiffon dresses and the groomsmen wore navy suits. The groom wore a pale grey Lanvin suit and the bride wore a vintage-inspired chantilly lace Vera Wang gown with velvet and chiffon...]]></summary>
   <category term="Featured Weddings" scheme="http://www.mywedding.com/blogs/mywed/categories/featured-weddings/" />
   <category term="Real Weddings" scheme="http://www.mywedding.com/blogs/mywed/categories/real-weddings/" />
    </entry>

  <entry>
   <title><![CDATA[Etiquette Expert with Proper Tipping to Vendors]]></title>
   <author>
   	<name>Claudia Lutman</name>
   </author>
   <link href="http://www.mywedding.com/blogs/mywed/2009/11/etiquette-expert-with-proper-tipping-to-vendors.html"/>
   <id>http://www.mywedding.com/blogs/mywed/2009/11/etiquette-expert-with-proper-tipping-to-vendors.html</id>
   <updated>2009-11-04T00:00:06Z</updated>
   <summary type="html"><![CDATA[Question:How much should vendors be tipped?  And what if a friend, who is not in the bridal party, has done something, should they be compensated?
Etiquette Expert, Claudia 

Lutman's Answer: 

To tip or not to tip is important and of obvious concern.  A tip is given as a personal expression of gratitude for service given and appreciated.

Tips are given by your wedding planner or best man on the day of your wedding.  Each tip should be addresses to the recipient and sealed in an envelope.  

Before signing any contracts, ask if gratuities are included in their price quote...]]></summary>
   <category term="Etiquette" scheme="http://www.mywedding.com/blogs/mywed/categories/etiquette/" />
    </entry>

  <entry>
   <title><![CDATA[Color Board: Make a Bold Statement with Red]]></title>
   <author>
   	<name>Guest Blogger</name>
   </author>
   <link href="http://www.mywedding.com/blogs/mywed/2009/11/color-board-make-a-bold-statement-with-red.html"/>
   <id>http://www.mywedding.com/blogs/mywed/2009/11/color-board-make-a-bold-statement-with-red.html</id>
   <updated>2009-11-03T00:00:05Z</updated>
   <summary type="html"><![CDATA[
Photo Credit: 
Pom and cystal decor - Studio Flora Diva
Cupcake - Sweet and Saucy Shop
Shoes - Charles David for Nordstroms
Candy apple - Matt's Gallery from Our Labor of Love
Cylinder match box favors  - Our Labor of Love
Dress - Amazon
Bird design stationery - Good on Paper Design...]]></summary>
   <category term="Colors" scheme="http://www.mywedding.com/blogs/mywed/categories/colors/" />
   <category term="Inspiration &amp; Planning" scheme="http://www.mywedding.com/blogs/mywed/categories/inspiration--planning/" />
    </entry>

  <entry>
   <title><![CDATA[10 Worst Ways to Save Money at Your Wedding]]></title>
   <author>
   	<name>Jeff Wilser</name>
   </author>
   <link href="http://www.mywedding.com/blogs/mywed/2009/11/10-worst-ways-to-save-money-at-your-wedding.html"/>
   <id>http://www.mywedding.com/blogs/mywed/2009/11/10-worst-ways-to-save-money-at-your-wedding.html</id>
   <updated>2009-11-02T00:00:04Z</updated>
   <summary type="html"><![CDATA[It's a simple media equation. Recession + Wedding Season = 20,000 articles about how to save money at your wedding.
Sometimes the ideas are good on paper, not so good in reality. We've seen stories on reselling the bride's dress (yeah, good luck convincing her to do that), cutting the open bar, and using your friends as photographers.
At some point, however, enough is enough. So, in a recessiony year that's packed with half-baked cost-saving ideas, we humbly offer ThePlunge.com's 10 worst ways to save money at your wedding: 
Corporate sponsorship
Really commit to this. Don't just have the appetizers sponsored by Frito Lay--that's...]]></summary>
   <category term="Grooms’ Guide" scheme="http://www.mywedding.com/blogs/mywed/categories/grooms-guide/" />
    </entry>

  <entry>
   <title><![CDATA[Elliot & Heather Marry in Jackson, MS]]></title>
   <author>
   	<name>Gretchen</name>
   </author>
   <link href="http://www.mywedding.com/blogs/mywed/2009/10/elliot--heather-marry-in-jackson-ms.html"/>
   <id>http://www.mywedding.com/blogs/mywed/2009/10/elliot--heather-marry-in-jackson-ms.html</id>
   <updated>2009-10-30T00:00:03Z</updated>
   <summary type="html"><![CDATA[
For more pictures of this beautiful wedding, go to Kelly Moore Photography!...]]></summary>
   <category term="Featured Weddings" scheme="http://www.mywedding.com/blogs/mywed/categories/featured-weddings/" />
   <category term="Real Weddings" scheme="http://www.mywedding.com/blogs/mywed/categories/real-weddings/" />
    </entry>

  <entry>
   <title><![CDATA[What to Wear to the Rehearsal Dinner]]></title>
   <author>
   	<name>The Man Registry</name>
   </author>
   <link href="http://www.mywedding.com/blogs/mywed/2009/10/what-to-wear-to-the-rehearsal-dinner.html"/>
   <id>http://www.mywedding.com/blogs/mywed/2009/10/what-to-wear-to-the-rehearsal-dinner.html</id>
   <updated>2009-10-29T00:00:02Z</updated>
   <summary type="html"><![CDATA[The rehearsal dinner is the perfect opportunity for the groom and his family to show off a little bit. We all know that the bride’s side is responsible for planning the reception - which is likely to be the event that is remembered most. However, the rehearsal dinner is picking up steam in recent years as an event that can more than hold its own. 
Today we’re blogging about what the groom should wear to the rehearsal dinner (and the wedding walkthrough that precedes it).
You definitely want to wear something nice to the actual rehearsal (think slacks, a dress shirt, tie...]]></summary>
   <category term="Grooms’ Guide" scheme="http://www.mywedding.com/blogs/mywed/categories/grooms-guide/" />
    </entry>

  <entry>
   <title><![CDATA[Color Board: Black as Night]]></title>
   <author>
   	<name>Gretchen</name>
   </author>
   <link href="http://www.mywedding.com/blogs/mywed/2009/10/color-board-black-as-night.html"/>
   <id>http://www.mywedding.com/blogs/mywed/2009/10/color-board-black-as-night.html</id>
   <updated>2009-10-28T00:00:01Z</updated>
   <summary type="html"><![CDATA[
Photo Credit:
Suit - Dolce & Gabanna
Cake - Lidia Miller Photography
Shoes - Koodos
Glass vases - Jamali Gardens
Containers and candlesticks - Juliska
Earrings - 1928 Jewelry
Dress - Charlotte Russe
Bouquet - You and Your Wedding
Invitation - Wedding Paper Divas...]]></summary>
   <category term="Colors" scheme="http://www.mywedding.com/blogs/mywed/categories/colors/" />
   <category term="Inspiration &amp; Planning" scheme="http://www.mywedding.com/blogs/mywed/categories/inspiration--planning/" />
    </entry>

  <entry>
   <title><![CDATA[Vendor Spotlight - Tasha Delancy]]></title>
   <author>
   	<name>Ask Lucy</name>
   </author>
   <link href="http://www.mywedding.com/blogs/mywed/2009/10/vendor-spotlight---tasha-delancy.html"/>
   <id>http://www.mywedding.com/blogs/mywed/2009/10/vendor-spotlight---tasha-delancy.html</id>
   <updated>2009-10-27T00:00:00Z</updated>
   <summary type="html"><![CDATA[Tasha Delancy, celebrity make-up artist, shares with Lucy her advice on how brides can look their best.

Lucy: What do you recommend for a skin care regime?

Tasha:  First of all, as much as you want to pamper yourself in the month before your wedding, avoid facials; do microderm abrasion twice a week instead.  For the month prior to your wedding, adopt a consistent skin care regime, preferably with products that are all-natural and made with soy.  Cleanse your skin morning and night and follow-up with a serum, moisturizer, and eye cream.  I recommend refrigerating your skin care products...]]></summary>
   <category term="Makeup" scheme="http://www.mywedding.com/blogs/mywed/categories/makeup/" />
   <category term="Fashion" scheme="http://www.mywedding.com/blogs/mywed/categories/fashion/" />
    </entry>

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