
Why we love? 1 John 4:19 says, "We love because he first loved us"...
He - I love her because she is PERFECT! :D Well, almost, since no one is perfect, but she is the MOST PERFECT person I've ever met, that's for sure! She's pretty, like doh, the PRETTIEST one I've ever met in all of my 28 years of living on this Earth! Hehe! Her eyes, they really do sparkle! Her smile, that's the most beautiful thing, and her laughters, they are magical and really cuteee! :D And by cute, I really do mean that she's really like a baby, and she's clumsy too! HEHE! I find that really cute and funny of her! Of course, despite being physically beautiful, it's her inner beauty that attracted me in the first place. She's smart, kind, generous, thoughtful… and just perfect! From the moment we went out on our first date, I just knew that she is different from all the other girls I've met and gone out with before. She's really unique and somehow with her, it's as though I'm with my soul mate... just the perfect companionship! She's one that I know I can spend lotsa time with just being myself. We had no issues with communication, and I like the rest of her! Also, I can just be who I wanna be! I can talk as how I usually talk, and there's really no hard thinking of what to say, and all that cause I'm just so very comfy with it! I can sneeze, cough, burp, talk lame jokes, etc, and I would still feel very much like myself in front of her! She's the only one whom I feel this way, and that's when I know that she's the one! :D
When I was looking for a girlfriend back then, I was thinking to myself, the girl that I'm gonna date, and eventually marry has to be an usher. In my opinion, an usher is really the servant of the church. They are the ones right at the door step, welcoming each and every one of the hundreds of people coming to church, giving them a big smile to welcome 'em and their roles just don't stop there! They distribute the bulletins, welcome the visitors, collect and count the offering, prepare and distribute the communion, and serve each and every church goer to their best to ensure they have a great experience worshiping Him in the House of God! What's more? She loves kids! And that's the second ministry after usher that I would like my girlfriend and eventual spouse to be serving in. These aren't hard rules, but preferences, and somehow or rather, she fits perfectly! Serving with her in both these ministries really helps us build this relationship. I strongly believe that this should be the way to go to build a strong bonding, but then again, I'm inexperience to comment. It's just my opinion :P Oh ya, she's playful when it's time to play, and serious when it's time to be serious! :D She can be one crazy silly girl, and I love her lots for that, cause that's when I can really play, and not be serious. Come on, if all of life is so serious, where's the fun in it? Thank goodness she's all fun! :D And when it's serious stuff, you had better not be playful ;) You wouldn't wanna know the consequences :P She's wayyy too good for me, honestly! That was the struggle when I first fell in love with her. I had issues with myself, knowing that I'm not good for her, but then again, God blessed me big time! She is definitely more than I've ever asked for - she's my best friend! :)
She - I love him because he is funny! =P This is what I always reply when he asks me why I love him. Well, it’s true! What happens when you are old next time with white hair and all? What is left then? It’s the companionship, the laughter! =) This guy is a joker and I love him for that. Every little stuff that he does will just make me smile and to me that is important. I love him for the fact that he is very caring, sweet, thoughtful, kind and the list goes on… but what amazes me most about him is that he is ALWAYS joyful. He is never grumpy or moody even when he has a bad day at work etc, no matter what happens he is always smiley. Thank God for that because I am quite the opposite at times. Everything that goes wrong will make me jump with anxiety and he is the perfect person to cool me down and cheer me up =) Of course, there are many other reasons why I love him. Other than the joker part, I really like the fact that we serve in the same ministries in church and most of the time we spend together, it is in church serving Him. Basically we just enjoy each other’s company and lead a simple life. Everything is just so easy with him. When I met him, he totally changed my perception about simplicity in life. He taught me a lot, how wonderful everything can be, that we should be contended with even small little things in life. Life is not about the material stuff, it’s about touching lives around us while we are on earth. He opened my eyes to many things and I really appreciate that. To conclude, he is the love of my life and I can’t wait to spend our lives together as husband and wife!