
Blog wasn't in fashion yet back then and I'm extracting part of our story from our little red diary where we jotted down our story 8 years ago.
Year 2000, week O of the orientation week, a normal nerdish looking boy (Hao) met a slim, kuai girl (Xin). The activity started and the whole class was divided into groups... so Hao, Xin, Joyce, Steph, Daniel were assign to one group.
As usual girls usually talk about boys when they are in group.. Dennis (Chicken Head) was rather popular but Xin was attracted to the more quiet boy Hao, known as Charlie back then.
Very soon it was the 1st week of lecture and Xin decided to consult her best friends Ziwei and Kaixi to drop in her lecture to have a peep at "Charlie Wang Zi" (Prince Charlie) which is Hao's nickname..
Here's a group picture taken at Bugis Macdonald after the orientiation.. Spot Nerdy Hao and Kuai Yi...
It is here, where the two piggies actually meet, selling sha sha bears together. Yi actually remembers Hao not offering to buy coke for her.
Groups were assigned for projects and our first assignment was something relating to Pantene Shampoo.. we spend most of time together after lectures and during weekends to discuss and work on our projects and finally presentation ...
Here's a group pic after our presentation.
Being the only couple in the class, we were always in the center of attraction and the most unforgetable incident was playing truth or dare in the library with our classmates..
And the first time Hao revealed Xin was his girlfriend was during a BizComm tutorial that Xin was the best thing that happend to him in TP in front of the class. Everyone was cheering and clapping.. Xin was very touched as Hao is normally a shy guy and she did not expect him to declare his feelings in front of the class.
After graduating from Poly, the next stage of life for Hao was Enlistment and planning for Uni for Xin.
21 Aug 2008 was Hao's enlistment day. Xin was very sad and misses Hao very much.. No form of contacts were allowed for 3 weeks.. luckily Xin had her job at SBF to occupied her thoughts..
The most unforgetable day during BMT was the 1st Parents visit day @ Tekong.. After alighting from the ferry, Xin and Hao's mom were shock to see rows n rows of recruits in the same hairstyle (botak) and wearing the same uniform.. Xin and Hao's mom walk through the rows anxiously looking for Hao. Xin was given a shock when Hao step out and scream in delight.. It was just 3 weeks and Hao seems to be fitter and tanner ...the first visit to Tekong will always be a wonderful memory in Xin's heart.
Time flies and very soon Hao was able to book out every weekend...Every weekend was precious and Xin will always wait for Hao to book out at Pasir Ris and send him off when it's time to book in.
To conclude, the BMT was the toughest time that Hao ever went through handling military life. During Passing out ceremony, it was the proudest moment for Hao when Xin and Hao's Mom went to put on the cap for him. Hao is now officially a Man.
The next 2 years while Hao was serving the Nation, Xin was pursuing her Degree in Aust.. there were ups and down and it was the most difficult period in both Hao and Xin's relationship coping with long dist rslp as well as army and study stress. We kept our love going through webcam, sms, phonecalls and etc
Very soon Xin graduated and Hao completed his National Service... both of us entered the work force at the same time .. working hard towards their future.
Year 2008
Planning Starts
Hao started his research on proposal rings using the internet and also contacted Estee to ask about some recommendation for jewellery brand. At the same time, trying to sound Xinyi out for diamond ring and brand preferance.
To hide his intentions, he made it known to Xinyi early that he is planning to get married only after next year, 2009.
Next, Hao went ahead to do some research on proposal place and also contacted Stephanie for some recommendation.
Soon Hao began his actions. He bought a ring from Soo Kee Jewellery and then booked a hotel night at a theme hotel for the special day.
Everything was planned and Hao asked Xinyi out on 1th Nov 08. It was her birthday eve & he took her out for a good lunch while promising her a good surprise for her birthday.
All along, Xinyi was only told they will be staying overnight at some unknown yet surprising place, but little did she know it was – The Link Hotel. This theme hotel was first researched by Xinyi, after which she told Stephanie that she wanted to try out staying in a theme hotel.
Hence, it wasn’t hard for Hao to find out from Stephanie where to host the proposal.
Link Hotel is rather ulu (out of place), hence it took Hao and Xinyi quite some time walking around trying to locate that hotel.
This is only part one of the plan, Xinyi is still kept in the dark of special guests appearances by Stephanie, Huili and her BF. Hao deliberately delays the time resting in the hotel room after checking in, so that the guests can arrive in time to surprise XY.
Hao didn’t reveal to Stephanie that a proposal was to be done after midnight, but somehow they guessed it. Hao only told Stephanie there is a birthday cake specially ordered and custom made to be delivered at 12pm to hotel room.
After the guests’ special appearance, together they went for a dinner and a movie show so as to spent the time till 12 midnight.
Hao and the rest returned to the hotel around 1145 pm and made some chit chat while waiting for the birthday cake. Hao was especially uneasy as he knew the proposal will soon take place.
The heart shape brownie cake came with additional chocolates. After the happy birthday song and birthday wish, Hao had to pop the question.
During the half an hour, Hao heart kept thumping heavily, millions of butterflies swarmed his tummy and his heart skipped a beat while taking out his proposal ring.
Hao then gave a soft “Will you marry me?” Then open the Soo Kee casing (freaking hard to open at that moment, with hands shaking). Awkwardness was in the air as Xinyi gave zero response. Absolutely no response or a single sound can be heard from her (wanted to strangle her). Just say yes, damn it….
To break the silence, Hao realized he had to say something. Then Hao said why he chooses her, the meaning of the proposal and his commitment to her, and re-prompts the stonefish (Xinyi) to wriggle a bit.
Not to forget Huili shrieking “You never kneel arh!!”
Thereafter, Xinyi took the ring and agreed.
To be continued on the "Blog" tab