Calvin & Jerlyn

Our Story

*Who say that's no true love in the Cyberworld??*

*Who say that's no true love in the Cyberworld??*

The Guy: He added her in Friendster & MSN Messenger in the Year 2003. They were only purely online 'friends' back then.

They chatted a few times in MSN and knew she had a Boyfriend. So he just kept a distance as an online 'friend'. Yet he always keep track of her MSN's nick n her Friendster's blog. He wana get close to her, to know her more. But she seems so distance...

One fine day, just so happened that he found out she n her then Boyfriend had broken up. Thus, he feels like meeting her up to start of as real friends. But she wasnt very keen at all. "She's so busy with her own life.." He thought. Feeling quite upset but decided to respect her decision.

In btw the 5 years, these scenario has been on-going for a few times. He always tries to held a little MSN chatting session with her but she had been treating him coldly. Even so, in his heart, he knew she was the ONE for him.

Till finally in the year 2008. She announce singlehood again. This time, she even agree to meet up together with their individual own friends in St James. "God had given us the chance once again n I'm so not gona miss this rare opportunity!" He thought happily to himself.

On the Eve of Labour day. It was love at first sight 4 him. Everthough he had seen her pictures umpteen times. But seeing her in real person is defintely much better!

Almost immediately, he openly show that he wana woo her. He started off with showering her all the attention n care she needed.

It wasnt very smooth sailing initially.. But his sincerity & peseverence finally put into effort!

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The Girl: She felt him irritating cause she is too busy with her own life. Her life surrounds only her Family, Boyfriend (back then) & Close Friends. She don't believe true love in the Cyberworld. She thought all the guys in the Cyberworld are perverts & players.

For the whole of the past 5 years. He had been constantly trying to make a decent MSN conversation in btw them. Only tries to ask her out only when she is single. He sincerely wana befriend her. But she was too blinded by other 'temptations'.

When she finally decided to meet him up eventually is because she did felt the sincerity that came from within him. Since they will be meeting up with a group of friends in a club, she don't see too much a problem in getting to know more friends either.

The meeting was on the eve of Labour Day (Year 2008) with both of their friends at St James. Coincidently, one of his friend was her Cousin! (Fated anot?!)

That night, they click on very well. Afterwhich, they went out on a few dates together.

Even so, she did not feel a thing for him yet. Because of her past few failed relationships. She wana open herself more to options. "Let's be friends n get to know more of each other 1st".. She said frankly to him. Still, he persevere.

He called her everyday. Fetch her from work. Bring her to dinner / out to hv fun. Cooked for her. Gave her the attention, love, care & concern that she always wanted. She begin to realised she enjoyed herself so much together with him.

No doubt she had few others better 'choices', but none ever show how sincere they are towards her. Only him.. She is touched.

Finally, in the 2 months of courtship, she decided to accept him on his 26th Birthday!

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They did practically everything together. Felt that they enjoyed each other's company so much so that they became almost inseparable. Everyday is a happy day for them. Not long later, out of a sudden, they started to discuss about Marriage!

Soon after her 26th Bday. He popped the question out to her out of nowhere. No romantic ambience but defintely a surprise place to propose - In a carpark! A dozen of the loveliest red roses togther with the Destinee 10' proposal ring in his car booth. He shyly kneel down to ask her to marry him. What more can she say but to agree!

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(Few close friends wasnt very supportive initially cos most felt their Wedding was indeed quite sudden.. They were concern that he/she might not be the one.. Many even thought the girl's pregnant! But NO.. They were just simply very much IN-LOVE~ They felt time will prove everything eventually.. And so, they just followed their hearts..)

♥ Jerlyn + Calvin ROM :: 10.10.08 ♥

♥ Jerlyn + Calvin ROM :: 10.10.08 ♥

Afterwhich, they decided to hold their Outdoor ROM Solemnization at Aloha Changi on the 10.10.08.

Since they like to do things together. They decided to plan their own ROM Solemnization Ceremony. From getting the Solemnizer, Catherer to organizing and decorating the whole event. Alot of co-ordinations to be done. Itz sure not as easy as it seems to. Slight dispute may arise but the very loving him will always give in to her. He knew its once in a lifetime event, so he also wana make it a perfect one.

Indeed, their ROM Solemnization were near to perfect. Everything fall into places nicely. Their hardwork paid off! Credits goes to their very close friends & families whom are always ready to help out whenever.

Their Customary will come later on the 10.10.10. (10 = 'shi quan shi mei' means PERFECT!) Which is also their 2 years Anniversary after their ROM! They knew nothing can be perfect in this world. But to them, they only want their Perfect Day! !