Ryan & Charlene

Our Story

"The goal in marriage is not to think alike, but to think together...." - Robert C. Dodds

缘 Fate...

HE had an overseas scholarship, but later decided to settle for a local education and SHE, almost went to Australia for her studies...

When they first met in school (Nanyang Technological University), Charlene had just entered her undergraduate life from polytechnic and Ryan, just completed his National Service (NS). Other than the occasional chat, sparks did not fly and neither of them had expected anything life-changing to blossom. But as they say, opposites do attract.

In school, he was the studious, smart, serious and hard-working student, while she was the inattentive, lazy and happy-go-lucky student. At work, he is the down-to-earth and disciplined officer while she is the organized and enterprising one. Back at home, he is the filial and obedient son while she is the attentive but rebellious daughter. In relationship, he is the unromantic one while she is always full of surprises. During personal time, she enjoys drinking and chilling out with friends while he prefers to stay at home to finish up the unfinished. He enjoys jogging along the road while she prefers the gym. He loves the witty, street-smart, attentive, sensitive personality and meticulous, perfectionist nature of hers. She loves the gallant, down-to-earth, prudent, decent, gentle, humorous and caring side of him. They found (and grew to love) in each other what they both were not.

Along the way, they found that their interests and likings overlapped. Music - they like the same genre of music, songs, artists and they tune in to the same radio station. Movies - they like the same kind of movies (thriller, action and comedy) and it became part of their monthly activities. Reading - they read books of the same category, and this is her fad which gradually became his. Football - it was him who influenced her to be a manchester united fan, and the list goes on to photography, cars, food etc. Bit by bit, inch by inch, they started to like what the opposite like, and do what the opposite like to do. Lovin' it... Above all, they share the same goals and vision in life!

Since proposal, plans were sketched out, goals were set, a commitment was made. And now, they are about to kickstart a lifetime of happiness.

So, save the date!

here's our journey, animated