We will have a ceremony similar in style to a Quaker Wedding. Since our marriage is not supported by the state government or either of our Christian denominations, it is important to us to have our commitment witnessed by our friends and family. There will inevitably be some family members who choose not to support our union. We respect their wishes and turn to you, who will be attending, to lend us your love and support.

As part of the ceremony, family and friends will be given the opportunity to share as they feel moved to do so. We welcome contributions in all forms. Tell us a story, give us advice, offer a prayer, read a poem (or write one!), sing a song or just give us a hug. Some silence is to be expected and should be used a time to meditate and reflect. At the end of the ceremony everyone will be invited to sign our wedding certificate and pledge to hold us accountable to our commitment to one another.