I do not believe you should feel like you are actors in a movie on your wedding day, working hard to please the director (or photographer) and having your every move and emotion being choreographed.
Live your day! Smile, cry tears of joy, laugh until you pee yourself*, relax, savor the moment, just don't feel the need to do any of it on command.
If this style of photography, capture and presented with premium quality materials, sounds like it may be the way you'd like to see your wedding memories, preserved, I would love to meet you, learn your story and hear your wedding dreams.
*warning- this expression of joy may not be in your attire's best interest!